You are in the Al Anbar province conducting combat operations against enemy forces when an IED detonates and amputates your leg just below your right knee. You have also suffered severe shrapnel wounds, a compound fracture of your right arm, and you don’t even notice the complete hearing loss in your right ear. As you attempt to scramble for cover over to a nearby grapehouse, you discover that you are not making much progress doing your belly crawl. Only then do you discover that your right leg is a bloody mess. Your buddies grab you and get you to cover. Somebody applies a tourniquet. You ask where your weapon is so that you can return fire. Everything is going in slow motion. And then your vision fades to black, you are unconscious.
Fast forward six months. You have zero recollection of being stabilized in Afghanistan, several operations later somewhere in Germany called Landstuhl are a complete blur, and now you are back in the States clean, neat, squared away with three meals a day, a roof over your head being treated in one of the premier rehabilitation hospitals in the world.
Your family, your friends, and your country are soooooo proud of you. And let’s all be thankful you are alive!
But significant questions remain. How did I get here? How are my buddies? How did the attack go? Did anyone else get hurt…or worse? Where is my unit now? Are they OK without me? I was taken away. I’m guilty leaving my guys. I still have some unfinished business over there.
These and many more questions and thoughts haunt you every day.
Enter Rick Kell. Rick is a retired advertizing executive and was a volunteer at the Walter Reed Medical Center in D.C. He formed special relationships with many of the wounded warriors he dealt with. Almost all of the warriors had all the questions outlined above and Rick heard the same questions over and over again.
He knew that somehow all those questions needed to be answered. These wounded warriors needed to go back ‘in country’, get answers to all those questions, and then leave and “go back to the world” in control and under their own power, and not in a situation determined by the enemy.
Rick Kell promoted his idea to the Pentagon and it went nowhere. But some Army brass in Iraq got wind of the project and began to authorize Operation Proper Exit projects.
A typical trip allows these wounded warriors the opportunity to ‘go back’, to thank the medical staff that saved their life, to hopefully see that their injury was not in vain, and, if possible, to return to the site where they were wounded.
Many of you know that I specialize in critical incident management discussions and one of the key elements of any of those gathering is to systematically give people back some control over their lives that was often brutally taken away.
Operation Proper Exit does that and more.
There is no prouder moment for these wounded warriors than to pass through a cordon of military honor guards who are thanking them for their service as special honorees walk up the ramp of a C-130 going home on their own terms.